Russell Hyken, Educational licensed psychotherapist, discusses what to do when your teen asks
for a tattoo.
Since tattoos are much more mainstream now than even a few years ago, it’s a relevant and important subject parents should be prepared to discuss openly. With tattoo images prevalent among peers and superstars, how can a parent manage what may seem like an act of teen rebellion?
Hyken gave the following advice for parents whose teen wants a “tatt”:
Good parenting requires a discussion—not an argument.
Be ready to listen to their rationale.
Your goal is to ensure your teenager understands the decision
and the long-term consequences.
Set up a time to talk specifically about the request with your teen;
begin by addressing safety issues.
Discuss social implications and tattoo placement.
Ask your teenager why she wants a permanent mark on her body.
This can provide important insight into your child’s inner world.
This article is reprinted with permission by Russell Hyken Ed.S, M.A., LPC, NCC, CEP, CPE For more information and the full article, please visit Russell’s website: http://www.ed-psy.com
